LI(F)E

Amma : My son, eat this food, or else devil will come and catch you!!  ( Lie for growth)

She will feed her kid.

Lover : You are my world, i will die for you!! ( Lie for Love )

It makes the love strong.

Friend :  I will not talk to you!! ( Lie for Bond )

I cant miss you, don't say like this :(. It gives more binding.

Husband : Oh no, How i will look another gal?!! ( Lie for Relationship )

I must be the only beautiful & lovable gal for you, wife's thought.

Employer : You are the best employee i ever got!! ( Lie for Business )

Oh god! I born to work here, employee's thought.

Advertiser : Use this fairness cream, you will become miss world!! ( Lie for Money )

Yes !! yes !! i bought it, i will become beautiful then, consumers thought.

Student : You are the best teacher in my school days!! ( Lie for Satisfaction )

My dedication gave the result towards this profession, teachers thought.

Doctor :  You will  be discharged soon.

The patient may not have a possibility for life. ( Lie for Life )

Grandmother :  One grandma is sitting in moon.

oh! where she will go on new moon day?. ( Lie for story )


Uff!! , how many lies? how many will be truth?

After giving some time for these thoughts, i just want to test it really.

I was having coffee with my friends one evening, i asked one among them,  whom you like more? He said of-course you. I was happy in that group, because i raised the question first, that gave me a Smirk on my face.

I did the same to my parents, my colleagues. I got the same smirk.

Just give yourself sometime and recall your lies & be proud for that, if it made someone happy.
Just learned it, lie wherever you can, to whoever you can. Actually not a big deal, you are not spending money from your pocket, you are not hurting anyone. You just lie for a smile from your loved ones face.

"Life lies in lies"

So Everybody Lies!!

Password

Not an explanation, the situation!

I came out of a star hotel after the drinks party, two of my friends helped me to go home - yesterday nyt
Me : 'Nasty people', by seeing a man who is lying in the road after drunk. - Today morning
(Place makes the difference)

I will warn the auto man with lathi, who is waiting for the passenger in the road side
Me : Why sir, why doing like this? don't park your car here.
(Range of Vehicle)

Oh my god! The fare increased from 500 to 750 for AC Bus, after my journey.
Automan : Madam first savaari, please give 150,
Me:  150'uh ??? This is day stealing, you are asking too much.
(Mind will not accept the real worth)

At least i will get 5000 hike this year, but i got 4000 only.
Maid: Madam please increase 100 rs in my salary
Me: You are getting more than enuf, do the work properly.
(Am always worth-full (really??))

I will pay the actual bill to the service center, but am not ready to pay the money, what the road mechanic is asking.
(whether i will argue with service center?)

I am ready to bring the insurance guy to the hall, but i will follow the water boy till kitchen, who is coming to put the water-can, because i doubt him.
(Doubt also will come, depends on designation?)

I cant test the vegetables that is already packed in supermarkets, but am ready to pay. At the same time i will not pay the actual money to road vendors, i will argue for even 2 Rs.

The power is falling towards the poor, who am i to rule them? they are also here to lead their own life,  I don't have to let some way for them, they will find their way, better don't block it. A simple man will respect our words, but am taking the advantage and trying to hit them in all ways.

Police kept a pickpocket-er in cell for 3 days, but they will investigate a bloody in a/c hall, who is doing big scams.

The money, assets, power what am getting (or) what am earning is not to rule the people, its just for myself.

Am not trying to prove that, all are bad, but unknowingly everyone of us is doing this, we are playing with people emotions, in everyplace, everybody giving respect to their own feelings and emotions, please at the same time don't hurt others. A man who is earning 50000 is using all bad words, if this is correct, then a man who is earning 5000, who is talking bad words, that is also 100% correct. No one have limits to dream, no one have power to control others, do your work, go in your way.

Just to think!

Mode : Stand-by

Courtesy : Inspired by an Article in Vikatan.

M _ N E (I was missed) !!

At 7 or 8,
 I can still remember that day, my mother forced me to eat something, that i don't like, but at last she won, i have to eat & digest it for her sake. May be she is right, but i don't like that. - 'CARE'
At 9 or 10,
 I remember the day with my relatives, i don't like them, but i have to act for some sake. May be they are really good, i don't like them. - 'TRADITION'
At 11,
 My parents decided to change my school, but that really pained me a lot, i missed some of my friends, i don't like to shift to another school, but i studied there for the next 7 years. May be they are right, i don't like that. - 'SITUATION'
At 12,
 I don't like to study, so i was beaten up by my mother for low scores. May be i was an idiot, i don't like to be a brilliant at that time. - 'ROUTINE'
At 15,
 I have to decide about my higher secondary group, my father did that, yes he is right!! am not matured enough to decide about my education, even i don't like that, i have to score good marks. -'NO WAY'
At 16,
 I still like to play, but my mother said, you are not a small kid to play outside. May be she is right, i don't like this. -'GIRL'
At 17,
 I fixed my first goal i think, but my father said, this is wrong goal, i know what you can. May be he is right, i don't like this. -'NO OTHER GO'
At 19,
 I think, am gonna mingle with the society, am getting matured, i hate the way of some people, i hate the government, i hate the education system, i hate the place where am, at last, am thinking too much, i hate myself. -'MY MIND'
At 20,
 Unfortunately, i gotta good chance to study in my dream place, yes i scolded my parents, teachers, society for my disappointments, but, i got this chance because of them. But another possibility, if i went with my decisions, i would be rather better than , what am now. - 'INABILITY'
At 22,
 No restrictions, no 'NO', no cross questions, am in a position to decide about my own life, but now i can't make it really, am expecting others to take decision, i used to it :(.

                                        'Practice makes man Imperfect' - 'My case'

When i can -------?, when i will ------- , how i will ------- , but i have to now -------  i dono what to -------  , when to decide ?, Whatever, i will decide it finally. I was disabled completely till my 23 years of life, when i will be completely 'I'?,when i will live in my very own way?,when i will found myself ?, hope i will be 'I' hereafter.

'Bad, no one. Good, no one'

He/She is bad, who am i/u to decide that. If we think in a abstract way, no one is good/bad, its like a makeup they are applying to their mind.

Individual soul comes from here, at this stage, a child knows nothing. After some months, the mother will give birth to a baby with lot of dreams.

Definitely, at this stage, he/she knows nothing bad/good.

Now, he/she is cultivated with some good things, but day by day,

Some bad things too accompany him, unknowingly we are inserting the bad things in to us, the only difference is, some people will not admit too much of bad things, some will not restrict that, but whatever, every person will have both good/bad stuffs with them. Then after some days

So definitely its up to us to get into good things and avoiding bad things.But some felt for the past, that i was bad and all, definitely not, we have to realize that, we learned all sort of subjects, some may teach us good, some may end with bad, in anytime a person can change. So don't we have to judge anyone is good/bad, instead we have to judge ourselves. We can find both stuff in a single soul, so.

'No money', if

"If no money, nobody will be in hungry
If no money, nobody will be responsible
If no money, nobody will have sleepless nights
If no money, goals may be short
If no money, heart-attacks may be less
If no money, life will not be competitive
If no money, world will be filled with fun
If no money, no development
If no money, i will be with my family
If no money, no self improvement 
If no money, every dad can spend more time with their child :'(
If no money, education willl be less
If no money, stress may reduce
If no money, no credits for problem & no debits for life
If no money, no beggars
If no money, some dreams will not die
If no money, some love will not end
If no money, no kills, no kidnapping
If no money
If no money, we can sleep more time :'(
If no money, no traffic, no accident, no loss of life
If no money, no global warming
If no money, no phew!"

am not saying money will not be there, because money have many optimistic things, but we don't let it to rule us, its just an object to exchange the things nothing else. We are selling our man power with some price & getting other manpower with some price, which is necessary to daily life, i think this is the role of money, but we ruining our self by giving more priority to just an object. In the ancient time people used the exchanging habit, but day by day, 'How one feather become five hens?', oh god! life is short, but humans are thinking money is life, so losing beautiful relations, make more relations, not an object. An object will have depreciation, but not love. Am losing myself, for just this object, no don't let it happen. For the sake of making money, we are destroying the forests and everything, "A rat is hiding in a box, for its own hungry it started to eat that, but at one stage it spoils its own shelter, then caught by the rat, lost its life. We humans doing the same, for our luxurious lifestyle, we destroying our own shelter, please the stop doing non-sense things for money." Save the earth and relations for generations, not the assets.

First Take (With osi cam)

15/03/2013 -  'தஞ்சை  பெரிய கோவில் '

Is it correct to express our emotions to others?

 I have a doubt from long back, that i can express my emotions to others.

NO

 Yes, we can express, but to selective one. I faced a situation in my life, A person 'x' who is called as a good person/calm person/a person with awesome character/.. . but one day he reacted in a different way, within 2mins he expressed 3 types of emotions, then suddenly all started to say that,  he is mentally ill, actually i dono the reasons behind that, why i am telling this??? if everyone express(better not to express) their emotions in a proper way, proper way means, we should have some control in our inner emotions, when someone crossing their emotions and express it as a worry/angry/cries/shouting, there where the problem starts.

'Control, may control problems.'

why am i ?

Is this the feeling, i need to walk with?

   I think, blogging is nothing but blab-erring, but few do it in a proper way, i may fail in this. Lets to the point, i used to ask this question myself, u too(?). We have to take everything, that we crossed in our life time till end.

When this question arises?

  When i fail in something[1], when i miss someone[2], when i got scoldings from someone[3], when i feel lonely[4], when i hate myself[5], when i got angry[6], when i feel unsafe about my life[7], i will ask this question to myself  'why am i?'.

What is my answer?

  [1] - I fail, not because am not fit for that, now am not properly ready to fit it.

  [2] - They missed me actually, why i have to think about it.

  [3] - Have to respect others feelings, they may be emotional/jovial/quiet/talkative, u change urself according to their feelings. Analyze ur relations, everything is same.

  [4] - Its completely my mistake, no one is lonely. am responsible for my loneliness.

  [5] - I hate myself for my inability, in making my job/relations/needs. But it will find a way.

  [6] - Am losing a relationship, no don't do that, value a relationship. A real asset in life, people around us & beautiful relationships between them.

  [7] - Not ready to lose valuable life.